Pain....

Pain is the acutely unpleasant discomfort experienced by somebody. It can be really annoying and cause many problems to us and the people that surrounds us. It comes in all shapes and sizes. Generally it’s a physical injury or illness. Then there is the other more complicated ways experiencing pain. Like when someone leaves you. Like when you miss someone too much. Or your just simply worried as a result you become the reason for your pain.

I guess what we all wonder is, how do you really deal with it all. You could clean an open wound with some antibiotics and patch it up with some band aid. But its more than obvious this is not the pain I am going on about. So to be honest I don’t have a prescription to that pain I am talking about. But in time I have come up with some sweet little remedies…ok they aren’t all sweet.

For all you wondering out their I got three words for you. “DEAL WITH IT”. Sounds pretty rude and insensitive right. But trust me once you start doing that it works pretty well. The only thing you need to figure out is how do you actually deal with it. If you’re a tough cookie you can just ignore it all and be done with it. Unfortunately that’s not the case. When people need to be the bigger man and just get by they fail to do so. Well its probably ok right. C’mon even the toughest cookies get to cry and have bad days. So my answer would be either you clinch on to dear life n fight through it. Or find the comfort of a friend.. Either way at some point you need to pull though all of it on your own.

Dealing with it can be a real test. Worst of all that strange feeling of fear can really complicated things. But if your able get through it even once. Then it means you truly know your own self. My advice would be to learn how to get through. One day after another. And slowly ask yourself on how to make things better. Then do what ever it takes. At the end of the day you can lie on the bed, think about it a bit and just go to sleep. No use beating yourself about it. Remember you cant change it no matter how much you think about. All you can hope and work for is a better future..Till then let time do the rest and mend to our wounded hearts while the muted chimes find the beat to your joyful life….